Sunday, December 2, 2018

Happy Belated Thanksgiving

Happy Thanksgiving From Our Family To Yours
Happy belated Thanksgiving blogger friends!  I love thanksgiving and have so very much to give thanks for!  This year we celebrated Thanksgiving with our Aunt & Uncle visiting from the  Midwest and all our cousins who have been slowly migrating to Arizona.  What a great time we had, hanging out together, talking, laughing and eating amazingly delicious smoked turkey, Iowa corn and a smorgasbord of pies.  There was no lack around our Thanksgiving table. What a beautiful day! We love our Arizona family!!  Then we stopped in at our friends that we normally celebrate Arizona Thanksgiving with and hugged on them and then off to another friends house for more pie and games.  I fell into bed exhausted but so thankful for the family and friends that God has so graciously blessed us with.  Also, this Thanksgiving season, I am thankful for continued healing in my back after surgery. 

This is one of my favorite Thanksgiving verses . . .

Psalm 107:8-9 "Let them give thanks to the Lord for His unfailing Love and His wonderful deeds for men.  For He satisfies the thirsty and fills the hungry with good things."  

I found myself praying this verse throughout the weekend, especially the part that says, "He satisfies the thirsty and fills the hungry".  There are so many people physically and spiritually thirsty and hungry and I pray that God satisfies them with Himself this holiday season. 

Wednesday, November 7, 2018


With Husband Awaiting Surgery
Well, I am happy to report that I made it through back surgery this week and am looking forward to being mobile again soon.  As some of you know, I had a ruptured disc in my spine along with a bone on bone disc and have been waiting for surgery.  I started having pain back in August and it increasingly got worse and worse until I was laid out the month of October (except for a few days I could function on steroids).  

I'm currently in recovery and in a lot of pain, but am able to sit in a chair for the first time in a long time.  Yay!  I have had amazing support from my friends and family and feel so blessed to have a community of such loving people.  So many people have brought in meals, flowers, texted, gifts, picked up my kids, sat with me and just talked, and daily checked up on me.   I told my husband, my love language must be "acts of service" because every time someone shows up at the door with food for my family, my heart is touched deeply.  I remember when I was having my children and my faith community would bring food in - but it's been a long time since I was so pampered.  

So, if you are one of the treasures that have given yourself so lovingly to me and my family . . . Thank you!  ❤

Wednesday, October 31, 2018

Halloween ~ Some Food For Thought

Here are a couple videos that I find interesting regarding Halloween this season and thought I would share.  The second video is very educational about the history and I think pretty well done.  I have researched a lot of history over the years but I think, Truthunedited,  did a great job of covering history and origins. 

A Pastor Shares His Thoughts On Halloween Video

History Of Halloween Video

Monday, October 22, 2018

Believe In Jesus

Some friends and I were a part of a little project for people who are new to a walk with Jesus. We are attaching our faith, to the days ahead, when God will (and is currently pouring) pour His spirit out on all mankind (Joel 2:28).  The Bible says in Romans 14:11 that "every knee will bow and every tongue will acknowledge God." So, if you stumbled across this blog and are new to knowing Christ, take a look at the videos we put together:

I love talking about Jesus.  In fact, He is one of my favorite subjects.  I also love learning about Him.  I remember sitting around the table at Starbucks planning what subjects we would cover and talk about. The videos we put together are just a couple subjects.  We could fill pages and pages of interesting thoughts and experiences of getting to know Christ.  I love the subject of Grace, so that is the subject matter I talked about.  Many of my friends, work in a TV studio and are used to camera's, but not me.  It was a new experience for me to sit in a TV studio and have the film guy adjusting everything.  I probably would have done a lot better with just my phone in my living room, but it's fun to try new things! 

I hope something from these videos touches your heart today and spurs you on in your faith with Christ (Hebrews 10:24) if you are just getting to know Him.  And if you have followed Christ for awhile, maybe some of these videos will be helpful as you disciple others.  If you have not made a decision to put your faith in God, let me encourage you . . . BEST CHOICE I EVER MADE!  I can't imagine life without a relationship with God.

Friday, October 19, 2018

A Thought to Ponder

"How abundant are the good things that you have stored up for those who fear you, that you bestow in the sight of all, on those who take refuge in you."  ~ Psalm 31:19

I love this scripture from Psalms 31.  How amazing picturing God storing up good things for us and then in front of everyone giving them to us.  The only caveat is that we walk in the fear of the Lord and seek protection and shelter (refuge) inside of Him.  I love this!  

The Bible says the Fear of the Lord is a fountain of life (Proverbs 14).  The Fear of the Lord is humility (Proverbs 22) and of course all the scriptures concerning wisdom and understanding being a gateway to the Fear of the Lord.  But the scripture I always think of and quote when I am defining the fear of the Lord is, Proverbs 8:14 "To fear the Lord is to hate evil".  I tell my kids to fear the Lord is to love what He loves and hate what He hates and evil is something that falls into that hate category (Psalm 97:10).  

So, we can look at Psalms 31 like this . . .  God has abundant goodness stored up for us when we walk before Him in humility hating what He hates and seeking His wisdom and understanding.  And everyone will see His goodness displayed in our lives as we take refuge/shelter in Him.  Love it!  A nice thought to ponder . . .

Thursday, October 18, 2018

The Debt of Love

Here are some thoughts I have on Love debt . . .

Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another, for whoever loves others has fulfilled the law.  ~ Romans 13:8  

Some translations say, “let love be your only debt.”

Have you ever owed anything to anyone or had an outstanding debt?  To have something unpaid, unfinished, pending or ongoing can be comparable to a heavy cloud hanging over your head or like a ball and chain.  Debt creates pressure and no one likes pressure.   To let “no debt remaining outstanding,”  is pretty easy to understand, mortgages, hospital bills, college tuition, credit cards, taxes or car payments all need to be paid and not left outstanding. But what does this clause “except the continuing debt of love” look like? Imagine a world with no debt other than love for one another.  It’s an interesting thought to think of love being a debt that we cannot pay off fully or be done with. 

Ponder for a moment, that you can never out-give love.  We continually owe love no matter how many times we have previously given it.  Love is our continual debt to each other.  If we owe love to someone at 3:00 pm we will still owe them love at 5:00 pm  And this is what love looks like, “Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”  This is the continuing debt of love. 

Thankfully we do not have to pay this debt of love in our own strength or merit.  Rather, we can receive the limitless, overflow of God’s love for us, overflowing out of us to others.  As we are rooted and grounded in the love of God, we are able to love others more deeply.  May Love be our only debt . . .  

Wednesday, October 17, 2018

A Little Down Time

This is the view from my backyard bed - what a glorious day! 
My heart has always went out to my friends and family who suffer from chronic pain.   It's so NOT OKAY!  This past couple months I have been having back issues and two weeks ago I hit my limit where I started having constant
back/sciatica pain.

Beautiful Bride - Niece Cecelia
 I had a lovely start to the month of September with a visit to Oregon for my niece, Cecelia's  wedding. It was an African outdoor wedding full of beauty and shared memories.  During the ceremony the pastor shared how my niece Cecelia had been brought through enemy territory during Liberia's civil war to meet my brother's pastor because news had spread that an American family wanted to adopt her.  I don't think there was a dry eye in the wedding guests.  Then a few weeks ago I took a trip to Iowa to visit family and help care for a loved one in need.  What a gift!  But both
Iowa Cousins - Baking Roles Together
visits, I was on constant pain medicine and in survival mode trying not to be on my feet too much.   For the last two weeks I have spent most of my time laying down because I cannot sit (minus a couple days the doctor had me on steroids that helped).  I'm normally pretty healthy and do not have chronic pain issues, so this was out of the blue and has completely cramped my style, especially for the work I had planned for September and October.  Much of the time these last two weeks, I was unable to even type on my keyboard due to the angle and strain.  Crazy!  I have not been out of the house in . . .  a very long time, but today I drove myself uptown to the Radiologist to get a x-ray for my doctor visit tomorrow with a spine specialist.  I got in the car and was thankful that I could maneuver okay, but by the time I got home, I was crying and heading for my bed and heat pad.  Urg!  What a pain in the butt (literally). :-)
Pizza From Friends
Thankfully I have the most amazing husband who cares lovingly for me.  He cleans my house, drives the kids all over wherever they need to go, heats up dinner or scrounges for food, prays with me, hangs with me and is a precious gift to me.  I have a beautiful mother who is continually checking up on me from a distance and probably worrying about me too much.  Smile.  I have prayer partners who check in and pray that are such treasures to me.  Then there are my friends who have offered and gone above and beyond to help. I think word is getting out that Nita is flat on her back and friends are springing up out of the woodwork with offers for rides for the kids, offers to clean my house, offers for food or just companionship - hanging out.  Today alone, I was offered a pan of enchiladas, a pot of bean and ham soup, a shepherds
Outdoor Bedside Tray
pie (John's personal favorite), the option of being put on a meal train and I think a couple meals are coming home with John tonight from our home group.  I'm undone by the kindness of those who love us. I have the world's best friends and am super thankful for each one in my life.  If you are reading this post dear friends, you touch me deeply.   It's a little hard for me to receive from people but I am trying to get better at saying "yes".

Bedside Tray
Friends have also been stopping in just to sit with me while I lay, which feeds my love bank.  Here is a photo of my bedside tray where friends brought me flowers, candle and tea.  Sweetness!  I figure, if you have to be laid up, you might as well pamper yourself.  I feel so blessed to have a loving, supportive family and friends and comfortable surroundings.  When the pain is quieted down, I have moments where I feel like I am on vacation,  but when I get up and walk around, the reality of the situation floods back - but life could be a lot worse.

Daughter and Friends Hanging
So, all that to say, even though these weeks have been rough, I know pain, sickness, disease, infirmity are not from God! It is not His plan!  It is not given to me to make me better or more like Him.  That would be an incorrect theology about God. He is wonderfully able to redeem circumstances and turn them for good, but He is not the author of pain and suffering.  He is the giver of life and all that is good (James 1:17).  He purchased my healing (and the healing of so many others who are suffering) through His death and resurrection (Isaiah 53:5).  My circumstances do not define God's truth.  God's truth defines my circumstances and I wait for my circumstances to manifest who God is in me and to me. The other night, a few friends came over and prayed for me, the sciatica pain has decreased down my leg substantially (James 5:15)  This I am grateful for.   I'm touched by the faithfulness of God no matter what season we are in. The  song below, by Jeremy Camp is one of my all time favorites and has been a fav during this season . . .

Video Clip - Jeremy Camp "Same Power"

This prophetic word by Lana Vowser was also an encouragement also this morning:

Wednesday, September 12, 2018

Skin Care For Teens & Young Adults

I'm thrilled to share with you a new venture I am doing.  I just launched a website for a skin care line I am partnering with    I still have to tweak the website so it works on a mobile platform but if you have a computer and want to look us up on your desktop, please do.

For awhile now, I have been wanting to partner with a skin care line and sell skin care for teens and young adults.  My kids have been asking for skin care and I wanted something pure and well tested.  I looked into different companies and tried product and finally landed on one.  If you get a minute check us out.  If you are a teen or young adult in need of skin care - look no further:  If you know a teenager or young adult who is in need of skin care, consider Transformed Skin, I don't think you will be disappointed.  We also have all different kinds of products and skin care for all ages and stages in life, so do not let the push specifically for teens constrain you.  Happy shopping, Refreshing, Renewing and Rejuvenating your skin!

Sunday, August 26, 2018

Children Rescued

Hi Blogger Friends!  Here is a blog I wrote recently for Extreme Love and thought I would share with you:

 I love hearing about brave men and women, who are risking their lives to answer the call of rescuing trafficked children; just like our Extreme Love organization.  This last month I had the pleasure of sitting in a training session for combating sex trafficking. In the meeting were veterans; former navy SEALS and retired special operations agents who are a part of an organization called “Veterans for Child Rescue” (V4CR). These specialists use their unique skills for rescuing and extracting victims of trafficking.  I sat mesmerized as they shared strategy and vision for rescuing children in perilous circumstances.

Recently V4CR has just completed a three-part, multi-location, filming in several active trafficking corridors, throughout Southern Arizona, where thousands of illegal incursions into the United States occur every year. These routes (that run through the county I live in) often involve adults and children walking through the desert for six days straight.  Many of these illegal immigrants do not survive the journey. For the young children that are brought into the country the desert can be unforgiving. Those that survive the long trek will face an obligation to pay for their passage in the form of sex or labor for many years to work off their debt to the cartels and traffickers.

For the last couple years, I have lived out in the Sonoran Desert, surrounded by beautiful mountains and on dirt roads, but smack-dab in the middle of drug and human trafficking territory.  In the morning when my husband would take our dog and hike the mountains for time alone with God, he would often find caches and camps of these immigrants.  There would be abandoned sleeping bags, garbage, radios, clothing, and shoes. It’s heartbreaking to see and I was excited to hear that these veterans have a clear strategy for educating the public, raising awareness through their Contraland Film, rescuing victims, training law enforcement, investigating trafficking rings and putting predators behind bars. They use their military experience to run covert operations all over the country; working with law enforcement and border patrol agents.  What a comfort to know that the fight against trafficking is making progress through mighty men and women of prayer and passion who are taking ground physically and spiritually, and that children who are deep in the clutches of evil are being rescued.  

Saturday, July 14, 2018


Here is a blog post I wrote for Extreme Love:

Allow perseverance to finish its work, so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. ~ James 1:4
I’m amazed at the words from James 1:4, it’s as if I never read them before.  James is saying that one of the ways to lack nothing and not have a deficiency is to “let endurance have its perfect work.”  Perseverance is the will to see things through until the end in spite of fear, difficulties, failure, or opposition. 

God recently landed on this verse for me and made it come alive.  This verse is loaded with nuggets for us.  Firstly if we read it starting at the end, it says that we will lack nothing, if we surrender to endurance and perseverance.  We must let it run its course. How many times do I short-circuit what God is doing in my life because it’s too hard and I’m too uncomfortable?  In this scripture James is saying in essence that we must give permission for endurance/perseverance to finish.   It’s so easy, for me, in a western culture to pull myself out of persevering due to the resources that surround me.  Yet often on the mission field, we are faced with areas that require focused perseverance and can lack the resources and relationships to rescue ourselves.  These areas of perseverance, when we face head on, process through and finish, release in us maturity, a completion, a perfection and . . .  we do not lack anything!

Revelation 3:10 says, ‘Since you have kept my command to endure patiently, I will also keep you from the hour of trial that is going to come on the whole world to test the inhabitants of the earth.”  

This is another amazing promise regarding endurance or in another translation it uses the word perseverance.  It’s as if God is saying, you have persevered through to the other side and now the great trial that is coming I will keep you from.  It reminds me of the children of Israel when they were living in Goshen and had persevered through the great cruelty of slavery.  While God was sending plagues on the Egyptians He dealt differently with the Israelites and the plagues did not touch their camp.

Exodus 8:22 - 23 “But on that day I will deal differently with the land of Goshen, where my people live; no swarms of flies will be there, so that you will know that I, the Lord, am in this land.  I will make a distinction between my people and your people. This sign will occur tomorrow.”

He has done it before and He can do it again, where there is a distinction made between God’s people and the world.  This is a supernatural distinction, where inside of perseverance we do not lack and we are kept from the hour of trail. 

Today I am encouraged to persevere.  Even when we do not know the outcome, or our soul starts to feel deeply uncomfortable – let us be encouraged to throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Pioneer and Perfecter of faith and push through to that place where we lack nothing inside of everything that has purchased for us in Jesus.   

  "I Will Fight" Video Attached:

Saturday, June 16, 2018

New Wine

Video Attached: "New Wine - Hillsong Worship"
New Wine
In the crushing
In the pressing
You are making
New wine
In the soil, I
Now surrender
You are breaking
New ground (hey)
You are breaking
New ground
So make me Your vessel
Make me an offering
Make me whatever You want me to be
I came here with nothing
But all You have given me
Jesus, bring new wine out of me
Jesus, bring new wine out of me
Jesus, bring new wine out of me
'Cause where there is new wine
There is new power
There is new freedom
And the kingdom is here
I lay down my old flames
To carry Your new fire today (oh today)
This song has been my declaration lately.  I love songs for seasons.  God has always used songs prophetically in my life.  This is one of the ones that is ministering to me in this season of life.  Hard seasons can either push us into Father God or away from Him.  They truly are what we make them.  We can become Bitter or Beautiful!  :-)  

God is so about doing something NEW.  New wine, New power, New freedom, New fire. He has made us NEW and is transforming us into that newness and likeness of Him, doing new things all the time!  In that place of crushing, breaking, surrender, God is faithfully making something beautiful, something New if we allow Him through our surrender and yielding. 

The concept of new wine has been on my heart of late, as well as, rivers of the Holy Spirit.  This morning as I was praying, I was laughing with Holy Spirit as I was thinking of all sorts of ways to ask/receive from Him rivers, outlets, winds, wine, etc. into my life from Him.  

The process of making wine is quite "pressing".  Ha!  (That was my husband John's humor coming out.)  After the grapes are sorted, they are ready to be de-stemmed and crushed.  We all have seasons throughout life (and if you are have not had one yet, you probably will) where we feel de-stemmed and crushed (as well as amazing seasons of fruitfulness and harvest).  If we can yield to the Goodness of God, the Faithfulness of God, the Justice of God, the Father-heart of God, in those hard seasons, we can come out with new wine, having a life that is yielded and surrendered to the life of the Spirit of God - new power, new freedom, new fire, new ground . . . the kingdom is here!   

And don’t get drunk with wine, which is rebellion; instead be filled with the fullness of the Holy Spirit. ~ Ephesians 5:18

"We all experience times of testing, which is normal for every human being.  But God will be faithful to you.  He will screen and filter the severity, nature and timing of every test or trail you face, so that you can bear it.  And each test is an opportunity to trust Him more, for along with every trial God has provided for you a way of escape that will bring you out of it VICTORIOUSLY."  ~ 1 Corinthians 10:13

Friday, June 15, 2018

Summer Has Begun

My kids with their friends - Swimming & Milkshakes - ahhh!  The Life! 
Summer has begun in the Weldon household.  The temperatures in Arizona are now over 105 degrees which makes it officially hot.  I love summer, as life usually slows down a bit and the focus becomes more on family, hangout dates with friends, and swimming.  Of course there are also some of those lazy summer sleep-in days, for the kids at least. :-)  Usually summers can be a bit more work for Mom's as it seems there is an endless request for food, messy house always needing to be picked up and laundry overflowing, but I love that we do not have to be out the door to school at 7:30 am and my kids are now the age where I require much more responsibility in household chores and food prep. My favorite days are those that we spend in the pool and we come inside all sun kissed and cozy in for a sleepy movie to the end day.  I am trying to live in the moment and treasure these days, as I realize we are possibly just moments away from the kids having summer jobs and I will dream of their sleepy eyes and tussled hair emerging from the bedroom after 8:00 am.  Let the summer solstice begin . . .
My Kids having a "veg" day with Friend

Thursday, June 7, 2018

Micah 6:8

Here is a blog I wrote for Extreme Love Recently:

This verse has been on my mind of late, “He has shown you, O man, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you?  But to do justly, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God.”  Micah 6:8

Sometimes I put so many personal requirements on my life.  Requirements motivated by perfectionism that are self-imposed, requirements that stem from other people’s expectations of me, requirements that I think God may desire.  But I love this scripture that brings a refreshing simplicity into my relationship with God. 

God shows me what is good
Psalms 31:19 says, that God has stored up good things for me as I fear Him. Psalm 84:11 says, “For the Lord God is a sun and shield; the Lord bestows favor and honor; no good thing does he withhold from those whose walk is blameless.” What a comfort to know that he not only shows me what is good but he does not withhold good from me.

God shows me what is required of me 
I love this verse from Acts 2, “You have made known to me the paths of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence.”  He wants to show us what is required of us and the paths for us to walk in. 

What is required:  Do Justly 
Do justice!  I like justice defined as “taking up the cause for restoration of every violation of Love.  Taking the wrong and making it right.” 

What is required:  Love Mercy 
Ephesians 2:4 says that God is rich in mercy.  How wonderful that the God of the universe lives inside of me, so I too can be “rich” in mercy, showing compassion, kindness and forgiveness readily.  I can approach God’s throne of grace with confidence and receive His mercy. 

What is required:  Walk Humbly with your God
An invitation to walk with God free from haughtiness, arrogance or assertive behavior.  A yielded, submission to His Lordship in our lives.  And  again in Psalms 25:9 we find another promise of God guiding (the humble) us in what is right and teaching us His ways.  Psalm 149:4 says, that the Lord takes delight in His people; He crowns the humble with victory.  How beautiful the picture of a submissive, yieldness to God that produces victory!  Often in our culture we think of victory as assertive and extroverted act, but the scripture is saying that humility is the path to victory.

Today, I am doing a little personal inventory on the “requirements” of the Lord and I invite you, to do the same.  I welcome you to pray this prayer with me . . . “God, I thank you that you have shown me what is good.  I ask that you increase the fear of the Lord in my life to live blamelessly before you and walk in the good things you have stored up for me. Thank you that you show me what you require of me by making known to me paths of life.  Today, may I take every wrong that comes my way and turn it towards your righteousness.  May I release your justice into every violation of love that is revealed to me.  I approach your throne of grace with confidence and receive the mercy that you have for me to be rich in.  Help me to love mercy. May goodness and mercy follow me all the days of my life and may I dwell in the house of the Lord forever.  I yield myself and submit to your Lordship.  Thank you, God, that you always lead me in victorious triumph in Christ!  This day and forever, may I do justly, love mercy and walk humbly with you God!”

Micah 6:8 Video - Martin Smith

Tuesday, June 5, 2018

Keys to Leading Effectively

This came into my inbox and I am loving it!  Keys to leading effectively.  We all have areas we are invited to lead in.  In the home, in the workplace, in school, in ministry.  Check out this note and see if it resonates with truths that you need to press into for your own life or that you have already mastered and see fruit in . . .

Hey Juanita,
I firmly believe that leadership is more than a position or title. It’s lived out through example, inspiration, and courage. No matter what you do—whether you’re a teacher, an attorney, an artist, a healthcare professional, or in ministry—you can develop certain leadership habits that will help propel you into your God-given destiny!
The key to leading others effectively is to first lead yourself well. You can’t have one without the other. By cultivating your best self you'll be poised to bring out the best in your team.
To lead yourself well, you need to:
  • Acknowledge your value. No matter what happened in the past or what your present surroundings look like, nothing can change the fact that you are one-of-a-kind and irreplaceable, made in the image of God!
  • Resist the path of least resistance. Doing the bare minimum leads to, at best, mediocrity. Your willingness to go above and beyond will infuse a spirit of excellence into all you do. And by embracing a positive, can-do attitude you’ll transform even the dullest tasks into something you can feel proud of.
  • Grow through adversity. When faced with challenges, refuse to play the victim. Instead, view these experiences as opportunities for growth. James 1:2-4 tells us, “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything."

When you say YES to leading yourself well, you’ll become more effective in your home, workplace, and other spheres of influence. It’ll create a positive ripple effect that will resonate in all areas of your life!
Love you
Christine 💛

Friday, May 4, 2018

Stay In Your Lane

Here is a blog I wrote for Extreme Love and thought I would share with you guys too:

Lately, I have had this phrase running around in my head, STAY IN YOUR LANE.  I’ve been pondering the power of staying in our own life lane.  What do I mean by this?  Well, each one of us has been created with individual, gifts, talents and abilities.  There is no one created just like you.  You have a call on your life unlike anyone else. Only you can fulfill the purposes which God created you for, which is the lane He has called you to “drive” in.  Sometimes, in a quest to fulfill our “destiny”, we move out of our lane and try to operate in someone else’s. 

This is an area I struggle in.  I am pretty good at vision and so I often will have lots of ideas and plans in a lot of different areas but I have to ask myself, are they the areas or the lane I am called to?  For example, I know I am currently called to pour time, energy and resources into my children.  Often over the last ten years when I get before the Lord to refocus my priorities He will put my family and kids at the top of the list.  The other day I was talking to a friend and we got on the subject of legacy – I was moved to tears, as I found a deep longing rise up within me for a legacy to be created out of my family of rich love and enduring faithfulness and overcoming righteousness.  This doesn’t just magically happen.  My children do not grow up into these attributes, they must be trained, and time spent cultivating an atmosphere in the home for them to learn and grow.  If I am off driving in someone else’s lane, my family will suffer. 

In the workplace or mission field, the same is true.  When we try to take on too many lanes we lose credibility and can become the “jack of all trades master of none”.   Lay a foundation for yourself in the ministry/industry that you love and are called to and you will have established influence.  A lesson I’m in the middle of living is that it’s smarter to focus on fewer things and make major progress in each rather than try to do too much and make little progress overall.   

“The boundary lines have fallen for me in pleasant places; surely I have a delightful inheritance.” Psalm 16:6

It’s easy, in a life filled with internet, social media, blogs and networking sites, etc. to feel like the “grass is greener on the other side”.  Maybe if I try the lane someone else is in, things would work better for me, but comparison and competition never produce good fruit.  When we move out of the lane/lanes God has called us to, we lose traction, focus, valuable time, our vision for the finish line wanes and we can enter into feelings of overwhelm.  Maybe you have heard the quote, “comparison is the thief of joy” So true! 

We each have a lane specifically marked out just for us based on the assignment God has given us to complete in our lifetime. We are fully equipped (2 Peter 1:3) with everything we need to stay in our lane and run the race towards our God-given destiny.  “Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.” ~Hebrews 12:1

You are Amazing!  Know your role, and what you bring to life’s table, with your specific gifts and talent mix and may you bear much fruit for eternity by staying in that lane.  Today as we minister in our families, our workplace, our mission assignments, may we stay in our lane and hear our Father say, “Well done, good and faithful servant!” ~ Matthew 25:23  

Saturday, March 24, 2018

Happy Resurrection

Here is a blog I wrote this week for Extreme Love Missions, I thought I would share:

I love this time of year when we give our time and attention to remember the death and resurrection of Jesus and the power of the cross. The Gospel, which is very good news, was a result of everything Jesus purchased for us on the cross.  This is the foundation of any mission assignment. This is why people leave family, friends, homes, and jobs (Mark 10:29-30)…because of the power of the cross-the power of the gospel. This gospel is worth sharing with a world so in need of a Savior.
Recently I have started taking communion almost daily.  Focusing on the broken body of Jesus and all that it represents for life and health in my body. His body was broken so we could be whole. I will receive His divine health into my body, celebrating the power of His sacrifice over infirmity. I let His cleansing blood wash me in new covenant realities. I will sit in the quiet of the morning before the house is awake and exchange with heaven. If I have fallen short, I will hand this to Jesus and I will receive His blood just washing and cleansing me because Jesus died to set us free from sin and all its effects (Hebrews 10:12). Then I will receive what He offers me in that place because He has purchased EVERYTHING we need for life and godliness (2 Peter 1:3).
If there is something ahead in my day, I can receive by faith what I need inside of Him for that situation. He has it all. He purchased it all. Inside of Him is more than enough. My enemies (principalities and powers) have been thoroughly defeated at the cross. Because Jesus has triumphed we can reign in this life (Romans 5:17) This is good news!
There is no grief or sorrow He did not carry; there is no curse He did not redeem us from (Isaiah 54:4). Because of His broken body and His shed blood, we are forgiven accepted, blessed and healed. This is good news! This is news worth sharing.
This Resurrection (Easter) season, I invite you to prepare a communion table in the presence of your enemies (sickness, hatred, poverty, condemnation, impurity, disease, guilt, addiction, hopelessness, etc. = enemies of the cross of Christ) and proclaim the Lord’s death and resurrection (1 Corinthians 11:26). Declare what He has done for us through the power of the cross. It’s my goal to not merely look at the communion table as a ritual but as a declaration of faith – receiving by faith all that He purchased for me. Happy Resurrection to you!
“And if the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead is living in you, he who raised Christ from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies because of his Spirit who lives in you.”  ~ Romans 8:11
Written by:  Nita Weldon
Published on 3/21/18

Friday, February 23, 2018

Is God Controlling Everything?

I've wanted to blog for some time on the theology that God controls everything.  Yes, God is Sovereign - He is supreme in power and authority but he does not control everything. If this were so, we would not have a free will and the ability to exercise it in our Christian walk.   I am frustrated when I hear Christians say, "well God is in control", as their loved ones lay dying of disease, "God is in control", as they are without finances and struggling to put food on the table.  My heart gets so sad and I want to defend God's character and re-direct them as they are hurting and believing it is God.  God is supreme authority.  God is all-powerful!  But, He is not the one devouring health, finances, dreams, etc. If this were so, we would be bi-polar Christians.  Up one day and then down the next.  We would be so confused as to who are Father is and His character.  Is He good or is he bad?  Does he loves me or is he bringing this into my life to grow me?  Oh my gosh, when I used to believe this, I was Bi-Polar in my faith, because the up and down ride with God was exhausting. Of course, we can grow in hardships as we yield to Him, of course God works things for good as we allow Him to transform us and our circumstances, but to say that He is controlling everything . . . please reconsider that theology.  Andrew Wommack is one of my favorite Bible Teachers and  I love how he so clearly states this thoughts on this theology, so I have copied a bit of his dialogue . . .

Jesus hasn’t saved, healed, delivered, or prospered a single person in the last 2,000 years. What God provided by grace 2,000 years ago now becomes a reality when mixed with faith. Faith appropriates what God has already provided. Faith doesn’t move God; He isn’t the one who is stuck. Faith doesn’t make God do anything. Grace and faith work together, and our part is to accept what God has already done. Grace must be balanced with faith.
Many Christians believe that God moves sovereignly as He wills, when He wills. That is because religion teaches that God controls everything and that nothing can happen without His permission. However, it’s not true—everything isn’t up to God. I have a teaching called The Believer’s Authority that explains this in more detail.
For instance, when my father died, I was told God needed him in heaven more than I needed him here. Even at twelve years old, I knew better than that. Why would God need my dad in heaven? God didn’t kill my dad. That is not what the Word of God teaches. The Scripture makes it very clear that Jesus came to destroy the works of the devil (Heb. 2:14 and 1 John 3:8). Satan is the one who goes about seeking whom he may devour (1 Pet. 5:8). Satan is the one who comes to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10).
God is being misrepresented. If He was guilty of all the things we blame Him for, there isn’t a civilized nation on the face of this earth that wouldn’t convict Him of crimes against humanity. I think the idea that God either causes or allows evil so that we will somehow grow spiritually is the worst heresy in the body of Christ. It renders people passive and takes away their hope.
If you really believe that God controls everything, what’s the use of doing anything? After all, it’s all up to God, right? If you believe that God is trying to teach you something through sickness or poverty, why see a doctor or look for a good job? Why not suffer as much as you can and really learn the lesson? I mean, how dumb can you be and still breathe?
Brothers and sisters, that is terrible doctrine. The Bible says that in the last days, people will call evil good and good evil (Is. 5:20). Denominations today are teaching that when you get sick or experience financial problems, God is causing it so He can teach you something or humble you. That is an example of calling evil good.
God is not responsible for killing babies, for rape, violence, poverty, or sickness. Satan is the author of evil, and the Bible clearly states that we are to resist the Enemy (James 4:7). Resist means to actively fight against something. If we aren’t fighting against sickness, for example, then we are submitting to it. To casually say to Satan “Please leave us alone” is not resisting the devil. We need to get angry at the devil, and we won’t get angry if we believe that God is the one causing or allowing the problem.
God’s will doesn’t automatically come to pass. Jesus said that not everybody will be saved (Matt. 7:13), yet Scripture says it is the will of God that none should perish (2 Pet. 3:9). God has provided salvation, healing, financial provision, and everything else we need, but if we don’t respond in faith to what has been provided by grace, we won’t receive. (
by Andrew Wommack 

Monday, December 25, 2017

Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas from my family to yours!  
My Parents & Family
 This year my parents have been spending the Christmas season with us.  We are so touched and blessed to have them a part of our lives and holiday.  We have been spending special moments together and treasure them.

Saturday, December 23, 2017

Make Straight Paths for Him

Here is a blog I wrote for XP Missions I thought I would share with you in this beautiful season:

Every Christmas God gives me a word, a scripture or a specific focus for the season.  This year, I feel He has put my thoughts on John the Baptist and given me the following scripture in Luke 3:4 as my focus, “A voice of one calling in the desert, Prepare the way for the Lord, make straight paths for Him.  Every valley shall be filled in, every mountain and hill made low.  The crooked roads shall become straight, the rough ways smooth.  And all mankind will see God’s salvation.” 

I’m sure there are many ways to unpack this scripture but the part of this verse that is really striking me is, “Make straight paths for Him.”  What a new and interesting thought for me.  I often pray Psalm 18:36, that God will make a broad/straight path for me to walk on, but here in Luke 3 the tables are turned and John the Baptist is quoting Isaiah in declaring a preparation for Jesus and straight paths to be made for HIM.  High places brought down, valleys filled and crooked places made straight and THEN mankind will see God’s salvation.  When I think of my own life and making a straight path for Jesus to walk on, I think of “alignment”.   The Passion Translations states, “Every twisted thing in your lives must be made straight.  Every dark way must be brought to the light. Wrongs righted. Injustices removed. Every heart of pride will be humbled low before him. Every deception will be exposed and replaced by the truth so that everyone everywhere will be ready to see the Life of God!” 

Seems like, John the Baptist, is defining what “Repent for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand” means (Matthew 3:2).   Repent, align, consecrate, and straighten the path for Jesus to walk in, for Jesus to shine His Light, for Jesus to be lifted up and glorified.  Make a straight path for Jesus, God’s salvation (His saving, healing, deliverance, wealth, truth, etc.) to be released on all mankind. 

This Christmas, I invite all of us to open ourselves up to Holy Spirit and ask Him if there is any place in our lives that we need to align/re-align or make straight so that Jesus, the Savior of the World, can walk into our lives, communities, missions, and world and release His salvation through us and around us.

Friday, November 24, 2017

Happy Thanksgiving

Happy Thanksgiving Blogger Friends!  The last week I have been waking up with this song in my heart.  Not sure why (as I have know this song for awhile) but I thought I would share it as it is so pertinent to giving thanks!  The chorus sings, "Life is a gift and the Giver is good!"  I am so thankful this Thanksgiving that I've got a good good God and He is a giver of Life and life abundantly!  When I am facing hardships and sadness, He is good and gives me LIFE.  When I am happy and all is well, He is good and gives me LIFE.  I'm also thankful for the gift of Life, it is short, it moves by so quick.  I am thankful for each new day and I celebrate with thanksgiving the Giver and His goodness!

Video:  "Housefires - Life is a Gift"

Since we moved to Arizona the last three Thanksgivings we have spent with our friends and leader, Ron & Patricia who just moved into a new house and studio.  Yesterday we had amazingly delicious food, precious fellowship and games.  When you can't be with your biological family, this is the next best thing.  Here are a couple photos from our day .  . .